Welcome to the Chaos (I Mean Blog)
Kind of thriving.
Hi. Hello. Welcome to This is Thirty (Something)—a blog where we don’t have it all together, and we’re done pretending we ever will.
I’m Nicole (but my friends call me Nikki), and I started this blog because my brain is loud, my phone notes are overflowing, and I needed a space where everything could live in one place. A place for the thoughts that don’t fit in an Instagram caption and the moments that deserve more than a disappearing story. This is it. This is me. This is thirty (something).
So… what is this blog actually about?
Honestly? A little bit of everything.
It’s part health journey (yes, I’ve been obsessed since middle school), part marriage reflections, part faith rollercoaster, part business chaos, and part “what am I even doing with my life?” There will be dogs. There will be meal plans. There will be workouts with crunchy knees. There will be dreams about being a multimillionaire and rants about being tired. There will be grace, grit, and a whole lot of starting over.
This isn’t a “how-to” blog. It’s a “same, girl same” blog.
Not polished, not aesthetic-only, not written by someone with it all figured out. Just honest, sarcastic, hopeful, tired, motivated—depending on the day.
Who is this for?
If you're in your 30s (or honestly, just human) and you're:
Wondering if you're behind
Wanting more but also craving rest
Obsessed with planning and being spontaneous at the same time
Trying to love your body and also wanting to be crazy fit
Building something bigger—whether it's a business, a family, or yourself
…you’re in the right place.
What happens next?
We’re going all in for the rest of the year. Weekly blog posts. Real talk. No filters. Sharing what’s working, what’s not, and what I’m learning along the way. You can expect health content, mindset shifts, travel stories, business updates, and probably a dog photo or two. Or twelve.
Hit subscribe. Bookmark the blog. Tell your best friend. Or just keep scrolling—I’m glad you’re here either way.
This is thirty (something), and we’re just getting started.
— Nicole 🖤